Sorry and thank you..

Sorry and thankyou are two words which help you to retreat your steps in many occasions of life when you cross unintentionally and unknowingly certain well defined limiting lines in interactions. They also help you stop intimacy coming towards you,escape from angry reactions and expressions.Many people on many occasions have told me they prefer interactions which are beyond these two words.But I feel even when such idealism exists in one's mind,practically it is impossible to develop interactions which are beyond sorries and thankyous.Humanbeings are very primitive in sensory powers than animals..We can't read minds.We cannot communicate through silence.We cannot visualise what is happening beyond the 4 walls which confine us.We dont have x-ray eyes.It is really a draw back.
Whenever I searched for such ideal interactions,sooner or later I got a chance to find out sorry and thank you are essential atleast to avoid misunderstandings of your truthful feelings.But still it is a habit of mine to search relentlessly for such ideal interactions in the journry of life.Keeping one's own self from cheating itself may help to find out or establish such interactions.Intimacy is a thing which develops from trust,loyalty ,faith,communication,courage and acceptance bothways.And intimacy is the building block of ideal interactions.A courageous person cannot be failed until he himself fail him.Unconditional acceptance,love,care,forgiveness,empathy and compassion leads to greatest relationships.Possessiveness is a sign of attachment.Nobody will try to possess anyone whom they are not interested.So if someone is possessive about you,you should be happy.But we dont understand this fact until it is too late. To deal with faults and fallacies of human interactions one should always have a broad vision.,selfconfidence and a deep understanding of one'sown self before knowing others.Ideal interactions and then relationships develop only from open and bold minds.Lies will help you to overcome current situations,but they have no strength to resist the tides of time.If one wish for an ideal interaction,I think he should not be manipulative,selfish and arrogant.Correcting ones own faults should be a priority before pointing finger on the one who faces you.And admitting ones own mistakes never make a person small,but it help him to grow wider than the sky. My humble conclusion--sorry and thank you have a definite place in most intimate interactions..